Tuesday, August 5, 2008

♥The♥Big♥Woman♥Revolution♥




So today, My husband and I were laying in bed talking, and Tyra Banks Show came on. So I started watching. I was remembering when she had the "So What..!" campaign going on. And began to get mad. This beautiful,thin, rich, black woman has no right to preach to woman with self-esteem issues. WHY? Well first off- she has no reason to consider herself fat. She's not even close to big. (Tall, sure. Fat, no.) I remember seeing this woman today saying how she "hid food in a bedroom dresser" without her slender husband knowing. This woman was a big lady. But she definitely wasnt HUGE. Im so sick of seeing slender people-who have NO IDEA what it's like to be a bigger woman in this society-preaching about how we should feel good about ourselves.




"Honey, you take a walk around the world in a fat suit for one day then tell me how aweful it feels, but guess what? You can take it off!" -Ashley Marie




People consider that- since this person is obese (I hate that word), then she/he must eat a shit load! And when we go into a store for a candy bar-we get the eyes of the skinny demons. Hell you dont know my story, you dont know my condition...back off and let me eat my milky way!




Now Tuesday night-while I should have been blogging- I was watching "How to Look Good Naked." I LOVED IT! But Why? A skinny GAY guy was talking about how we are not perfect but thats okay. But why did I flip out when Tyra did it. Maybe because she was a role model for a walking hungry stick.




"I am going to be a mother-so in no way, whatsoever ;do I want to be a stick that looks hungry-walking down a runway"- Ashley Marie.




I just think its great when I see a big beautiful plump woman walking around confident. Now Im not saying I hate skinny people. I hate people in general. (thats a joke.) I just hate when I see people being a hypocrite. Saying one thing-but then promoting another...




Its like me seeing two dogs on the side of the road-taking in the gorgeous stray dog- then by passing the ugly one... its just wrong. Morally. Big woman CAN be sexy. Some woman are so afraid of the human eye that they hide every detaled part about there body. I, for one; LOVE my curves. And, Im sure my husband does to. But if ever a day came- that he told me to lose weight- I think I'd laugh, then pack his shit for him, and send him sailing. :) After breaking any valuable thing he has of course. :P




Weight isn't something people should be judged by. It's something the media has brainwashed basically. Thin is in. (sickly thin)... and if your over a size 6- well your just shit out of luck...


I say double numbers are better than no numbers at all! I myself am a 11/12. I use to be a size 18! Im pregnant now-7 months- and I use a hair bow to keep my pants on me....


LOL


All Im saying is woman.


BE PROUD OF WHO YOU ARE.


Be proud of that nice t-shirt that makes you feel sexy. Those highheels that make your legs look longer and that gorgeous guy who always waves hello to you when you leave your house. Be proud.




Cause girl, you got it goin' on!!!!!




Ashley Marie =D

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